I prefer the first picture,because it describe two parents what share the work.The mother who takes care of the kids and a dad what helps her cooking.So they have an armony in their relation.
The second picture describe a dad who is lazy and he wait for the mother to do all,while he is just reading the newspaper.The mom is doing all the work so that is way harder,and that's why I prefer the first picture like a ideal version of my future.